Cats can be such mysteries, can’t they? Sometimes I wonder if they really love me or if I’m just the person who fills their food bowl. But over time, I’ve noticed some sneaky little things my cat does that make me think, “Hey, maybe they do care!” I’m no expert—just a cat lover sharing what I’ve seen. Here are seven little ways your cat might be showing you some love. These aren’t big, obvious signs, but they’re sweet in their own way. Let’s dive in!
1. The Welcome Home Rub
You know when you get home after a long day? Your cat’s right there, rubbing against your legs. It’s like they’re saying, “You’re back! I missed you!” They might act cool most of the time, but that little weave between your feet feels special. It’s almost like they’re happy to see me. Does your cat do this too?
2. The Gross but Sweet Gifts
Okay, this one’s a bit weird. Sometimes my cat leaves a toy—or worse, a dead bug—at my feet. It’s not exactly a pretty present. But I think it’s their way of sharing something with me. Like, “Hey, look what I caught! You’re welcome!” It’s gross, sure. But it’s also kind of cute in a strange way. They’re trying to impress me, I guess!
3. The Loud, Happy Purr
When my cat curls up next to me and starts purring, it’s the best sound ever. It’s like they’re telling me they’re happy. Especially when I pet them and they just keep going, vibrating away. Those half-closed eyes? Total contentment. It makes me feel like they really like being around me.
4. The Stealthy Shadow
Cats are supposed to be independent, right? So I was surprised when I noticed mine following me around. Kitchen. Living room. Even the bathroom! They don’t make a big deal about it. They just casually show up wherever I am. It’s like they want to hang out, but they’re too cool to admit it. I didn’t expect that from a cat!
5. The Lap Nap
If my cat chooses my lap over the couch or their fancy bed, I feel honored. They could nap anywhere, but they pick me. It’s warm and cozy, and they just snooze away. I think it means they trust me. That little purring weight on my lap? It’s the best feeling.
6. The Slow Blink
This one’s super subtle. Sometimes my cat looks at me and slowly blinks. I heard it’s like a kitty kiss. It’s not something they do with just anyone. When they close their eyes like that, it feels like they’re saying, “I’m okay with you.” I blink back sometimes. It’s our little secret moment.
7. The Kneading Ritual
When my cat starts kneading my lap with their paws, it is amusing. They push and pull like they are kneading bread. The way that kittens knead their mothers, so that it appears that they are demonstrating they feel secure. It is a little sign that they feel at ease and content. Even when their claws dig a little into me, I do not mind.
So, there you go! Seven little ways your cat might be showing they love you. They don’t wag tails or jump all over you like dogs do. But these quiet, sneaky signs? They mean something. I’m no cat expert—just someone who’s watched mine a lot. Next time your cat does one of these, maybe give them a smile. They’re saying “I love you” in their own special way! What do you think—does your cat do any of these too? Share your stories in the comments below!”
